Below is the questions which asked by a professor,named John Agno,who coaches executives and business owners on how to build their leadership capability;and my asnwers in bold.
Here are five tough questions to help you discover what’s important
to you:1. If you were on your deathbed and you wanted to tell your children
– or the young people to whom you are close — the three most
important things that you’ve learned in your life, what would they be?
1.To be independent,responsible and accountable
2.To have deliberate consideration towards every problems and must set a far sight view.Don’t just be induced and preplexed of the current and temporary advantaged illusion and situation.
3.Never do anything which is against the standard morality,harmful to your family,your friends,your associates and ……. . Don’t try to do anything which is beyond your mental,physical and financial capacity,cause that would bring you unexpected wind-up as you cannot control them.
2. What gives you the greatest joy, satisfaction and renewal in your
life and how could you do more of it?
To be successful and reaching the goal which has been set for a specific period of a specific task.However,to be together with the family would be the greatest joy in my life.
3. Who are you without your job, your money? Describe in detail.
3. Who are you without your job, your money? Describe in detail.
I would like to devide myself into two environment:
1.Me in the family: My family loves me very much,that is why I do love them too.Not because they are my family and they love me,but they are the good people who deserve to be loved,respected,cared and protected.
2.Me in the society:They might not like me as i always maintain my strict policy that noone should commit any mistakes.They will be punished or dismissed if they commit the mistake at the second time.
4. What activities could you add to your life that would be a source
of richness and joy?
Reading would be another source of enjoying new knowledge,experience and advise.Someitmes,things in the materials (books,thesis,news,….) can be used and implemented in our real lives.However,understanding others’ feeling and environment by associate with them would make our lives become more colorful.
5. Think of someone you admire deeply–and explain why.
My grandfather.He passed away when i was only 3 years old.YOu might feel strange or even think that i am a stupid and untrustworthy person,because how a three year-old child could know clearly about what the circumstance he or she places in.Yes,the admiration totally comes from the description which is told by my father.My grandfather always thought about his sons and daughters rather than himself.He didn’t go to school when he was young,but he admired and respected someone who did.That is why he would rather do anything to earn enough money to send his sons and daughters go to school,especially my father,his eldest son.Unfortunately,he passed away when he was only 66 years old as because his job demanded huge physical labour and that time the medical technology was still limited and our country was still in the recovering of the civil war and adding to our poor economic income.Now,we are much better.My father wish that if my grandfather,his father, was alive,he would tell him that:Dad,I loved you so much.You know,we succeeded.We are much better now.We can afford most of the thing in our lives.We don’t have to live in such difficult environment as before and we will be going better and better
